Story of a Psycho-Bitch
Disclaimer: This website is here to entertain and also as an outlet for me. My boyfriend's ex doesn't seem to know how to let go and move on and has a very wild imagination which seems to border on a personality disorder. All the chat logs and blog entries that I am re-posting have been kept the same except for the names which I have changed to protect all parties involved from harassment. All entries are in Blue with my wording in Green and any little comments I have to better explain things in Red… Enjoy
Alright so starting from the beginning Everything was going great when I started dating my boyfriend, he was a close friend before we started our romantic relationship and we loved spending time together...
Anyways about 2 months after we started dating (February), Mitchell and I were at the 99cent store looking for cool random crap to buy.
Something was bothering him and we eventually started to talk about it. Turns out his ex was telling him that she was pregnant with his kid, they hadn’t been together since October and she was knocked off a freeway overpass on New Years Eve after her car hydroplaned.
No way in hell was she pregnant, especially after supposedly getting an abortion… anyways this is the email that she sent him:
Date: Feb 21, 2006 2:37 PM
Subject: IMPORTANT, please read
Body: I know I sent you something to call me, but I doubt that you will, so
I'm sending you this letter.
Dear Mitchell,
For some reason, you wish not to speak to me anymore and you hate me. I wanted to tell you this in person or at least over the phone. And I had hoped that we could talk about this when you came to pick up your mail. But you have continued to ignore me. I am not going to ask why because you are a completely different person than the guy I helped bring back to San Diego. You have your new life now and there’s no more room for me in it. But there is something that you need to know.
I never got the abortion. My check for Planned Parenthood ended up bouncing and the clinic refused to do the procedure. I had enough for the co-pay, but not enough to pay for the procedure. And since you were so upset about my pregnancy, you felt I was going to take away your freedom and the way you yelled at me, I felt I had to play it off like I did get the abortion to make you feel better. I thought that you were going to pay me back in a timely matter, so once you paid me back, I was going to have the procedure done and I wouldn’t have to tell you. But you never paid me back. Things were going well for us as friends for a period of time, and I was going to get the abortion done just because things were going so well, and I was going to tell you that I was still pregnant and see if anything changed.
The night I got into the accident and lying on the street, the first thing I could think about was the baby and you. When the paramedics came, all I could say to them was “Save my baby, please!” While I was in the trauma room, the doctors and nurses did everything they could to save my pregnancy. And they did. The baby suffered MAJOR trauma, but they believe that it will be alright. I’m still at risk to miscarry, so I have to be cautious while I’m recovering from the accident. I asked them to not tell any of my family because I still didn’t know what to do with my pregnancy and I didn’t want anyone to know if it was going to be terminated or miscarried anyway. And since I was legally an adult, no one had to know. No one else (besides a few close friends) knows about my pregnancy and I intend to keep it that way. I have been seeing a midwife who comes to my house once a month until I am able to drive to a doctor for prenatal care.
I have been trying to contact you in the last month to tell you but you continue to ignore me. I’m not asking you to be involved in my life or the baby’s life. I was going to go on with the pregnancy and put the baby up for adoption. But now I’m considering keeping the baby and raising it myself. Even if I do keep it, I’m not expecting you to be involved. Your life seems to be going really well and I don’t want to interrupt that. I am getting about $150,000 from my insurance settlement from the accident so I will be able to raise the baby financially by myself and possibly afford a nanny so that I can go back to school.
I'm not asking you for money or for you to come back to my life or be a father. I am asking you to sign a form giving up your parental rights. My attorney said it would be the best option because he has seen cases where fathers say they don’t want to be involved and then demand part custody and it’s an ugly battle. After the baby is born, I will be going to court to get full custody of our baby and if you sign the paper, it will make the process much smoother. I know you are not ready to be a father (financially or maturity), and I know you don’t want to be a part of my life anymore. I am giving you the easy way out. And you will never have to tell your family, Justin or Brooke. Please know that I was not trying to trap you and I’m not trying to do that now. I would’ve had the abortion had I had the means to get it done, but I needed your help. But you abandoned me when I needed you the most. I am giving you the choice whether to be involved or not. Whichever path you choose, I will support it. If you decide to not be involved, I will never tell our child about you and as far as she will know, you never existed.
Please get back to me so that we can talk about this and you can tell me what you decide. 760-555-9287 And please don't let anyone know about this until we talk.
Lets take a minute to check this out:
“I never got the abortion. My check for Planned Parenthood ended up bouncing
and the clinic refused to do the procedure. I had enough for the co-pay, but
not enough to pay for the procedure.”
I call bullshit on that, first of all Planned Parenthood would not have turned
her away just because a check “bounced” they are low-cost and sadly
I have known little 15 year olds who have gotten them for free so there goes
that excuse.
Moving on…..
Alright that’s kewl, If the chick is preggers, Mitchell wants to be involved in his/her life. We aren’t sure if she is telling the truth because no evidence has been given. No documents from the doctor, sonogram or anything.
A few Days later Mitchell and I talk, He talked to Ali about things and it’s
a girl she sends him another email:
Date: Mar 2, 2006 10:30 PM Flag spam/abuse. [ ? ] Subject:
sonogram photo
Body: here she is....baby michaela
*I blurred out her name*
Ok, now check this out:
Almost identical. that was easy to find, Image search Google for "sonogram
16 weeks" and this is the first website to come up:
http://lsschiefer.tripod.com/week16.html
Interesting... and easy photoshop job, just changing a few words...
Ok so the sonogram was a fake.
Here is her blog post about it:
Tuesday, February 21, 2006
Oh Baby!
I went to a real doctor yesterday, luckily it was a holiday so Dirk was able to drive me. It felt good getting real prenatal care and I was able to get some prenatal vitamins. I have to stop seeing the midwife because I'm still at risk for miscarrying because of my low blood count (which explains why I'm so tired) and my injury. I fucked up on other things during this pregnancy like drinking alcohol. But Dr. Ehlers thinks everything should be fine if I refrain from drinking, smoking or taking any pain killers.
I have decided to let the father know what is going on. Since he's not talking to me, I wrote him a letter. I'll be honest, I'm not expecting any response at all.
But on a brighter note, I was able to get my first sonogram photo of the baby! I'm officially about 16 weeks along. I also found out that its a girl. I already have a name in mind...but I want to see her face first and see if its right.
Moving on...
We don't hear much else from her until later on...
Date: Mar 7, 2006 9:21 AM
Flag spam/abuse. [ ? ]
Subject: week 18
Body: the baby has been kicking...at least it feels like it. too bad you arent around to feel it, its pretty amazing. maybe if you get here to get your mail maybe michaela will kick for you. anyways, heres whats going on for my 18th week
Your Baby:
Your baby is growing rapidly. Her bones are continuing the ossification (hardening) process and the pads of the fingers and toes are formed. She even has her own set of fingerprints developing as well. Your baby is approximately 5.5 inches and weighs about 200 grams (7.5 ounces).
Your baby can kick, swallow, and sleep. She also is developing his stomach, intestine and colon and the intestines collect meconium (the initial stool a baby will pass after birth. The skin is still a bit pink and transparent and her ears still stick out from her head. The four-chambered heart begins to build up muscle cells and is pumping between 25 and 30 quarts of blood per day.
This time next year your baby will be 30 Weeks Old!. Can you believe it? Time flies to fast! Be sure you start chronicling these memories now by create your free baby journal today!
Your Body:
You may find that sleeping is increasingly difficult as your body grows. Several things you may want to try is to prop yourself with pillows to help you find a more comfortable sleeping position. Perhaps you may want to invest in several firm pillows or a pregnancy pillow to help you get comfortable. Also, try doing pelvic tilts before bed and always urinate before laying down.
You may be getting light-headed, dizzy or even feel faint from time to time. This is normal and is only cause for concern if it happens frequently (more then several times daily) or severely (causing you to pass out and fall). This condition is referred to as "postural hypotension" and occurs because your cardiovascular system isn't reacting as quickly as it did before pregnancy. Postural hypotension most commonly occurs when you go from one position, such as sitting, to another position, such as standing, too quickly. The best thing to do is to move slowly when changing positions. Move to the edge of the sofa or chair and allow yourself to get steady before slowly standing.
Pregnancy Symptoms You May Experience
Breast Changes, tenderness, fullness, darkening of the
areola
Frequent Urination
Constipation
Indigestion or heartburn
Occasional headaches
Stretch Marks (cocoa butter can help with these)
Itching
Alright.... Im pretty sure that this email explains itself.